Practicing Approaching

Last night I was supposed to have a date with this chick who has a dick trophy, but she flaked, so I decided to just hit a few bars flying solo and approach a few girls. I went out kind of early, first bar I went to was not packed at all and was a sausage fest, so after having one beer I moved around to a couple other bars. I joked around with bouncers, bartenders and even bums in the street in order to keep myself in the social mood, since this was my first real attempt at flying solo. It took a couple of approaches to really warm-up, but after that I had some decent conversations with chicks. I don't even remember how many approaches I made, I think around 9 0r 10 total and four of them actually led to solid conversation and I got numbers out of two of those. Didn't take anything back that night, but we'll see how these two numbers play out - I'll try to meet up with them for drinks or something next week.

The first number I got was this real cute black chick I happened to see while I was walking down the street after just leaving one of the bars and looking to see where I wanted to go next. She was walking towards me with her fatty friend, but she was definitely looking cute. The approach was fairly easy too, as I was walking up I smiled to her and she looked at me and slowed down her walk in order to let me approach. I don't even remember what my opener was, but she was feeling me from the beginning. She seemed to be a cool chick and we walked down the street together for awhile and at some point her fatty friend stopped to talk to some guy, which was cool cuz then it was just the two of us walking and talking. The funny part was some bum came up in front of us and said, "Y'all two are beautiful together" and gave me some dap. She liked that, she even repeated it back to me with a smile, "you heard that? He said we're beautiful together." Lol, when I get the pussy, I should go back and thank that bum for the co-sign and helping me out. I wound up getting her number and then moving around to make some more approaches, but that was definitely a confidence boost that I needed.

A little while after that, I wound up posted up back in the bar I started out at and was chillin' drinking my beer when three chicks were walking up on the side of me, so I turned around and opened them and talked to them for awhile and the cutest one was the main one talking to me. They were pretty funny, they were three chicks who went to high school together down south, but now all go to different colleges in the same city - I found that pretty funny. Anyway, I tried to get the cute chick's number and she gives me some line like "Oh, my boyfriend's about to come up here and he's a big guy, I'd be scared if I were you." Wtf? Are you serious? Lol, whatever, I'm not scared of your meathead boyfriend at all, but what a hilarious line, that shit make me snicker.

I rolled out of that bar and wound up talking to another group of chicks in the street, where another bum rolled up and said something like "how'd you wind up with these two beautiful ladies?" and the chick I was talking to gave him like $11 to get something to eat, which I thought was absurd - $11 is a lot of freaking money to be handing out to a bum! But, I pulled her number anyway.

A little while after that is started raining pretty hard and I decided it was about time to go, but on my way to the car, I ran from bar to bar hiding under the outside canopies or whatever you call them and talked to whatever cute chicks where next to me doing the same thing. Then, while under one canopy, while I was checking the time on my phone, some mud turtle chick walks up to me and starts up a conversation with an opener like "Hey, I'm so wasted and I'm bout to be 21 in two days", so I talked to her for a little bit, partly thinking about it, because she seemed like a sure thing for sure, but she promptly turned me off by saying "I'm so wasted, I just want to make out with a cute guy right now for my 21st birthday". No way in hell I'm making out with some mud duck in the middle of the street - too many people around, fuck that. So, I told her she should try some club down the street, maybe there's some cute guys in there. She didn't seem too happy with that response, but I didn't give a fuck and went back to ignoring her and playing on my phone. I mean this chick was maybe a 3, so fuck that, it's not even worth it, I'd be approaching 7's and up all night and got numbers from two 8's, I'm not making out with a 3 in the rain in the middle of the street - I'm not that damn desperate.

Anyway, that was my night... my first real step towards improving my game. I still got a long way to go to get to where I feel like I should/could be, but I'm going to make the best of it - believe that.

Oh yeah, and I just got Roosh's book Bang in the mail the other day, so I've started reading that, I'll probably give it a once over and have it finished by the end of the weekend.

Damn, I Answered.

My ex-girlfriend just called. And like a dumbass, I answered. We broke up two and a half weeks ago, and I've called her a couple times, but she never answers when I call. Yet when she calls me I always answer - I even deleted her number on Saturday and said I was going to stop answering when she calls me, there's just no reason to give her the satisfaction of being there to talk whenever she wants somebody to shoot the shit with, yet she never answers when I call. Yet, she's called me twice since then and I still keep answering - fuck. I know the number, so I know it's her calling - as soon as I answered just now I was cussing myself out in my head, like "fuck you weren't supposed to answer, dumbass". Ah, well, I wound up just pissing her off by making fun of how low her GPA was to the point where she said, "I'm gonna get off the phone with you now." Ehh, whatever.

Maybe I should save her number in my phone as "Don't Answer" - then maybe my dumbass would get the picture the next time she calls in a week or so...

UPDATE: LMAO. While I was saving her number as "Don't Answer" in my phone for future reference to remind me to not pick up - my piece of shit phone accidentally called her. I thought I hung up before she could see it, but I guess not, as she just text me saying "Whats up". Lmao, that was actually ammusing to me. At least I'm not pissed at myself anymore, now I'm just laughing about it. Instead of responding to her little "Whats up" text message, I decided instead to text another girl whose number I got a week ago, I simply said "Whats up" lol.

Flying Solo

That boy Roosh had a pretty good blog post about flying solo - one of the best blog posts I've seen on game, so I'm just gonna make this post to redirect to his post on his blog - check it out.

Weak Sauce

Okay, I admit, my attempt to get into the game last night was pretty weak. I went to one bar, walked around, saw maybe a couple of girls, but mainly just a bunch of old guys and the few girls I did see were already with guys or at least talking to guys, so after one walk thru of the bar - I left. No approaches, nothing.

Then I drove over to another spot where a few bars are and I only made one approach, while I was was walking over to the bars a couple chicks were walking past me, so I pretended to play on my cell phone and while walking past them said something like, "how are y'all doing tonight?" No response. They just kept walking. Not off to a good start.

Then again, "how are y'all doing tonight?" almost never works as an opener and I know that, I just didn't have anything better at the time. I've got to come up with better openers.

New to the Game

Alright, I'm new to the game. I'm 23 and at this point, I've been lucky to get the few notches I have from drunken college parties and facebook, but now I'm going to actually start approaching and trying to learn game. I know I'm cute and intelligent and I feel like I should have bagged way more girls at this point in my life, so time to do something about it.

I'm going to attempt to approach at least 2 girls a day. I know that may not sound to hard, but that's 720 girls a year if I have my math right, so surely I should be able to get my notch count up in 2010. I think my previous best is 7 in a year and that was my junior year of college, I feel like I should easily beat that this year if I approach anywhere close to 720 girls. So, here goes - starting now. I'm about to hop in the shower and hit up a bar real quick tonight and approach two girls - try to get makeouts or at least phone numbers, but if I get nothing, oh well, not really too worried about it, just trying to make that step to actually approaching when I say I will and get my game tighter.

Here goes nothing....